Meet Oleth

I'm Oleth, a mother of two, a daughter, a brutally honest friend, an avid fangirl, a music lover, and a budding traveler who aspires to explore the many beautiful places of the world to meet new people and personally witness the beauty of God's creations. 

I have many nicknames depending on when and where you have met me. The elders in my family and relatives will call me Lolet, my high school classmates and friends call me Doc, my university classmates and friends mostly call me Oleth (some of them Ate Oleth), my mentees turned friends (and "adopted" children) call me, Ms. Oh or Mommy O and had been known in my former company by that name.  When I resigned from work and spent my days watching Korean dramas, my fangirling friends knew me as Ajumma Fangirl and The Hallyu Enthusiast.  In 2022, I used  Philomena's Love and Light as my username for social media platforms to link it with my side hustle (an online store for handcrafted beaded rosaries and crystal healing bracelets). 

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I used to have separate personal, fan, and "journey" accounts because I feared that my friends would not understand why I fangirl over Korean actors at my age and spend so many hours watching Korean dramas.  I also thought that having a journey account would make it safer for me to express my thoughts on topics that can be deemed taboo by my real-life friends and relatives. With so many " I thought" you probably know by now that I am or was an overthinker.  It is probably one of the hardest hurdles I am working through in this journey.  After a year of contemplating (or procrastinating?), I have finally decided to be myself.  As part of my soul awareness journey, The Oleth who's working on her continuous process of self-awareness and self-development towards authenticity integrated all her layers that were previously known only to a select few.  So what if my hobbies don't suit my age,  or I have failed my relationships, and I have different opinions and beliefs?   Will it make you or me any better? Now, I would live my life, as authentically as possible without disrespecting other people's free will and boundaries. 

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I am naturally shy but feel called to share my journey as it may inspire others to get out of the rut and help themselves pull through whatever difficult circumstances they may be experiencing.  

I desire to inspire people (especially women) to heal and hope, live, laugh, learn, and love more. 

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We are not working towards perfectionism (as only God is perfect) instead we are choosing to embody our authentic selves who are mindfully co-creating with God our highest timeline--to live the life we know we deserve. 

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